" "Ang Tatay Mong Kalbo?" This sounds like a good, and funny play for me. "
I told myself this, and I am correct! It is a good, funny, AND enjoyable play ever. I thought, at first, the beginning will be a blast, like crazy musical number or whatnot. Also, it's a play with funny scenes with sense of good direction (by means of no random out-of-the topic/question conversations.) When the director said that there's a deep and hidden meaning in this absurd play, I pondered to myself "Really? Well it's hard to find a lesson in an absurd play, but I'll give it a shot." After the play, I went home and tried to recall the play then think of what kind of message she was reffering. While listening to a Deemo playlist (It's a rhythm game, major in piano. My favorite collection 1A and 1B, link will be provided on the end of the post if interested,) I thought deep, and there are few things that sparked up my mind and nearly answered the question "Why is the play titled "Ang Tatay Mong Kalbo?.
First, the story itself. Humor aside, it's just a typical home with random thingamagigs happening in the house. Stories, amnesia (between Mr. and Mrs. Reyes), temptation, and others. But that typical home has a deeper meaning in my perspective. This reflect the natural routine of an ordinary neighborhood in the Philippines. "Sharing" different kinds of grapevines to each and every neighborhood that may hurt the feelings of the person, having such high standards even though they're poor in the family, judging the person, thinking that the one who's judging is perfect. Did you notice the conversation between Mr. and Mrs. Santos in the beginning of the play? For me, this shows that they're not a happy couple at all, they're just forced to understand each other to be exact. What they're sharing to each other? It's just a test that if they really care on a certain person/topic, in short, testing of the person is what the people used to say "Plastic." Some couple huh?
Second, the surnames of "Reyes," and "Santos." According to research, the surname "Reyes" came from the Latin word "Regis" meaning "Royal," while "Santos" is a Latin word meaning "Saints." I can clearly identify the attitudes of Mr. and Mrs. Reyes, and Mr. and Mrs. Santos. Their similarity is the attitude of being in the "highest social class of the society." Rich and powerful, and has high standards in life. They always imply that they had the best in the city while others in the neighborhoods are just some lowly citizens. Saints are like gods, highly respected, people should not oppress the power. Do you ever notice that Mr. and Mrs. Santos are a bit disgusted to Mr. and Mrs. Reyes? The situation is like having a war between gods and kings. Also, almost at the end of the play, did you notice that Mr. and Mrs. Reyes switched places with Mr. and Mrs. Santos? It's like the kings are the ruler of the world, treated as "gods." What kind of irony where having this? Quite funny to think that they suddenly switch places. And I also cant believe I thought it this deep.
Third, the different stories of the Hepe and Mr. Santos and other grapevines of the two couples and Hepe. I find Mrs. Santos' story, "Ang Bulaklak" too obsurd since it's all about infatuation. What caught my attention is that the story of Mr. Santos' "Ang Ahas at Ang Aso." Now this is a good reflection to reality. What I observed to this story that this is a situation between a trickster and an innocent person. If you keenly listen to the story of the story, the snake is just using the dog for pleasures. Why would he kill the dog if he doesn't have temptations and greed up his sleeves? Another thing, from the random neighborhood stories of the two couples did you notice that they took a big deal to an useless story? It irritates me to be honest. This is one of the nature of Filipino neighborhood. One useless thing gradually became a "big issue to the society." Cool story bro. Let's pretend I understood all of them.
Lastly, why is it called "Ang Tatay Mong Kalbo" anyway?. I seriously though that the main character is literally a bald father, but no. After thinking deep and getting some of the hidden message to the absurd play, the reason why it is called "Ang Tatay Mong Kalbo" is that what they're referring "father" is the innocence of the person. Free from negativity from other people, has a sincere heart, avoids all the false statements from other cold-hearted, and selfish people. And why is it bald? People shaved all those good perspective that the father had. Selfish people shaved his smooth hair. The hair shows the optimism of the person even though he had this bitterness to the scalp. The baldness reveals humiliation, discrimination, and the alike. That's reality, we get shaved by people with their selfishness.
That's all I can think of. I really can't believe that I though of this deep but since it reflected me a lot even though its an absurd play it really helped me realize few things about the reality in the Philippines. That's all. *bow*
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The Link of the Playlist:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IjDbbxvol24
Resources:
https://www.houseofnames.com/reyes-family-crest
http://www.sheknows.com/baby-names/name/santos
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